Semi-random scratchings

One little thing to bear in mind - and it's experience from sunny Rome, rather then cool damp Venice, is that they do take winter pretty seriously. Rome in January may be in the mid 60s, and comfortably warm to us Northern barbarians, but all the Romans walk around in very heavy fur coats and hats.

So - you may find that once she does get her head around when the wedding is to be held, that she to some extent over-compensates for the likely weather conditions, albeit it possibly to a lesser extent than further South.